Dr. Mel has hit on a truth that’s rarely discussed: may of us look in the mirror and don’t like who we see. As children, most of us grow up loving who we are and who we are becoming, but then something changes along the way. Somehow we stop appreciating who we are and we lost sight of our identity. This is a big problem in our society and Dr. Mel sets out to help us rediscover and reconnect to who we really are so we can become who we’re meant to be.
The Identity Bond is a true gift. It wholeheartedly exudes truth, honesty, realness, and self-awareness. It’s easy to continue day to day in a mundane manner. After reading this book, I want to dance, sing, and bring others with me! Great, great book! I’m sharing with my children!
People should not be afraid of, nor shy away from self-discovery, learning who they are. It is only in that enlightenment that they grow and change- if they want to, that is. To begin the process, a person must realize that God is their Creator, but man is how own maker… Once a person discovers who and what he is and determines to change what he can and accept what he cannot, he gains confidence, self-worth and respect, and inner happiness that only he can give himself, and a lasting peace with the person he is.
Dr. Mel's book, The Identity Bond, was a crucial guide to me throughout my battle with breast cancer. Identity bond aided in my coping with past and present fears and my self-esteem issues that had long hindered my personal growth. Her ability to guide and explain is truly incredible. As an Author, I know this is very difficult to accomplish. But Dr. Mel did it beautifully.